PILLOW TOK BOOSTER PACK
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We've launched Pillow Tok for singles and couples, at different stages and seasons of life, to have meaningful conversations about commitment, love, and relationships today. Play Pillow Tok one-on-one or in a group to support one another in building stronger relationships. Read about how husband and wife team - Nick and Shihui - got started.
THE PURPOSE
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Help people have meaningful conversations about commitment, love, and relationships
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Foster greater understanding between couples
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Help singles discern and make good relationships choices
The tabs on the play mat that we could just pick, helped ease moments of tensions by throwing in a fun element. I liked how because it was formatted like a game board, it helped us discuss issues in a systematic manner where everyone could take turns to speak or take an action! It required of us etiquette in conversation, but in a light-hearted way.
FACILITATING PLAY
Whether one-on-one or in a group of singles and couples, the basic play mechanic is simple:
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Pick a card and ask a question
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Everybody answers
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Ask follow-up questions
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Rinse and repeat
INTIMACY CARDS
Refine your search for a partner with a dose of clarity/reality.
FIDELITY CARDS
Relight the fire and grow closer at every stage of relationship.
BUILD A DECK
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We've grouped the cards we like into sets to help you start conversations with your partner or with other singles or couples. There are 6 or 12 cards in every set drawn from Smol Tok and Pillow Tok. Refer to these card sets or build your own!
Smol Tok
Pillow Tok
AMONG FRIENDS
Share relationship stories with your closest friends.
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1 Cheek to Cheek
1 Red Herring
1 Larger Than Life
2 To Have and to Hold
3 All or Nothing at All
3 Epitaph
3 Late Bloomer
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1 Tug of War
2 Sound Advice
2 Earning Power
3 After Action Review
3 Warning Signs
FIRST DATES
Must-have conversations the first time you're meeting a date
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1 Ties That Bind
1 Pet Peeves
2 Thick as Thieves
2 Lull
2 Inner Fibre
3 Last Supper
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1 Babe in Arms
1 Face Value
2 Nest Egg
3 Pinky Promise
3 Rules of Engagement
3 Dating Decorum
MEETING THE IN-LAWS
Get to know each other as individuals
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1 Heirloom
1 Kin
2 Age of Innocence
2 Rallying Cry
2 Tingling in Your Toes
3 Not All That Glitters
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2 Hopeless Romantic
2 Sound Barrier
2 Pillow Tok
2 In-Laws
3 Unsolicited
3 Fair Play
MARRIAGE PREP
Talk through your hopes, expectations, and challenges
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1 Out Damned Spot
2 Pro Bono
2 Mini-Me
2 Homeland
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1 Peer Review
2 Conflict Resolution
2 Bedrock
3 Ever After
3 Pushback
3 Echo Location
3 Crisis Management
3 Class Divide
WEDDINGS
Spark conversations among your guests
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1 Alias
1 Little Tykes
2 Influencer
3 Picqued
3 Ticking Boxes
3 Mutant Power
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1 Grand Gestures
1 Great Expectations
1 Typecast
2 Bad Romance
2 #Priorities
2 Modus Operandi
ANNIVERSARIES
Recount your experiences as a couple with gratitude
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1 Jet Set
2 Course Correction
3 Sing to The Mountains
3 Know No Fear
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1 Down The Aisle
1 Sequel
1 ROFL
2 Waltz in Wonder
2 Trustfall
2 Moonshot
3 First Things First
3 On The Horizon
BEDTIME
Make time to share about your past day or week
1 Make Haste
3 Tete-a-Tete
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1 Magic in The Moment
2 Cold Pricklies
2 Warm Fuzzies
3 Virtuous Cycle
93.8 NOW RADIO INTERVIEW
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We went live on 17 Sep on Your Evening Escape and played Smol Tok and Pillow Tok with Timothy Go, Charlotte Mei, and Justine Moss. Catch it here!