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PILLOW TOK BOOSTER PACK

We've launched Pillow Tok for singles and couples, at different stages and seasons of life, to have meaningful conversations about commitment, love, and relationships today. Play Pillow Tok one-on-one or in a group to support one another in building stronger relationships. Read about how husband and wife team - Nick and Shihui - got started.

 

Get to the Heart of Pillow Tok: Part 1  Part 2  Part 3

THE PURPOSE

  1. Help people have meaningful conversations about commitment, love, and relationships

  2. Foster greater understanding between couples

  3. Help singles discern and make good relationships choices

The tabs on the play mat that we could just pick, helped ease moments of tensions by throwing in a fun element. I liked how because it was formatted like a game board, it helped us discuss issues in a systematic manner where everyone could take turns to speak or take an action! It required of us etiquette in conversation, but in a light-hearted way.

 

C. Singapore

FACILITATING PLAY

 

Whether one-on-one or in a group of singles and couples, the basic play mechanic is simple:

  1. Pick a card and ask a question

  2. Everybody answers

  3. Ask follow-up questions

  4. Rinse and repeat

INTIMACY CARDS

Refine your search for a partner with a dose of clarity/reality. 

FIDELITY CARDS

Relight the fire and grow closer at every stage of relationship.

BUILD A DECK

We've grouped the cards we like into sets to help you start conversations with your partner or with other singles or couples. There are 6 or 12 cards in every set drawn from Smol Tok and Pillow Tok. Refer to these card sets or build your own!

Smol Tok

Pillow Tok

CARD SETS
social gatherings, coffee

AMONG FRIENDS

Share relationship stories with your closest friends. 

1   Cheek to Cheek

1   Red Herring

1   Larger Than Life

2   To Have and to Hold

3   All or Nothing at All

3   Epitaph

3   Late Bloomer

1   Tug of War

2   Sound Advice

2   Earning Power

3   After Action Review

3   Warning Signs

first dates, flowers

FIRST DATES

Must-have conversations the first time you're meeting a date

1   Ties That Bind

1   Pet Peeves

2   Thick as Thieves

2   Lull

2   Inner Fibre

3   Last Supper

1   Babe in Arms

1   Face Value

2   Nest Egg

3   Pinky Promise

3   Rules of Engagement

3   Dating Decorum

meeting the in-laws, elephant in the room

MEETING THE IN-LAWS

Get to know each other as individuals

1   Heirloom

1   Kin

2   Age of Innocence

2   Rallying Cry

2   Tingling in Your Toes

3   Not All That Glitters 

2   Hopeless Romantic

2   Sound Barrier

2   Pillow Tok

2   In-Laws

3   Unsolicited

3   Fair Play   

marriage prep, heart to heart talk

MARRIAGE PREP

Talk through your hopes, expectations, and challenges

1   Out Damned Spot

2   Pro Bono

2   Mini-Me

2   Homeland

1   Peer Review

2   Conflict Resolution

2   Bedrock

3   Ever After

3   Pushback

3   Echo Location

3   Crisis Management

3   Class Divide

wedding favours, wedding ice-breakers, speech prompts

WEDDINGS

Spark conversations among your guests

1   Alias

1   Little Tykes

2   Influencer

3   Picqued

3   Ticking Boxes

3   Mutant Power

1   Grand Gestures

1   Great Expectations

1   Typecast

2   Bad Romance

2   #Priorities

2   Modus Operandi

anniversaries, romantic getaway

ANNIVERSARIES

Recount your experiences as a couple with gratitude

1   Jet Set

2   Course Correction

3   Sing to The Mountains

3   Know No Fear

1   Down The Aisle

1   Sequel

1   ROFL

2   Waltz in Wonder

2   Trustfall

2   Moonshot

3   First Things First

3   On The Horizon

bedtime, pillow talk, under the covers, couple time

BEDTIME

Make time to share about your past day or week

 

1   Make Haste

3   Tete-a-Tete

1   Magic in The Moment

2   Cold Pricklies

2   Warm Fuzzies

3   Virtuous Cycle

RESOURCES
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93.8 NOW RADIO INTERVIEW

We went live on 17 Sep on Your Evening Escape and played  Smol Tok and Pillow Tok with Timothy Go, Charlotte Mei, and Justine Moss. Catch it here!

SECRET SUPPER FRIDAYS

Sign up for Secret Supper where we facilitate meaningful conversations about love and relationships over dinner and drinks, with other couples and singles. Find out more.

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